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I need advice od dealing wth strong, successful black woman Posted on 03-19-2010

Staying Anonymous
Meriden, CT

Although what you did was inappropriate, I would say she is blowing things out of poportion.. Afterall, you did apoligize I mean why is she continously beating a dead horse? from what I gather it sounds like she is a bit insecure, although she may be a succesful woman, success does not equate to personal confidence and security.. In addtion, Six months in my opinion, is not long enough to get to know a person well enough to know you want to spend the rest of your life with them.. Maybe you should just take a step back and take a good look at your relationship and figure out if it is something you really want, if not move on and working on getting your professional life back on track.. Wish you well!!

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Prepaidlegallady from Greensboro, NC replied on 12-01-2010 10:50PM [Reply]

I understand where you are coming from.  I caught my x-man texting another woman and it went progressively down hill from there.  I too am a strong independent woman and because we have had to be strong most of our lives, its not that easy to tone it down.  Paitence with us will go a long way.  Eventually if the love is there, we tend to let go of the power slowly.  I think you should stay and try to work it out.0

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nlisah from philadelphia, PA replied on 04-14-2013 02:37AM [Reply]

Well my advice to you would be take notice and appreciate the small things. If she was walking around saying things like: why all the less successful women have it all and I don't" Clear indication that you have not been full force on your job to love, encourage and appreciate your woman. With us women those little signs of speaking out are only done when the non verbal clues we send have continously been ignored. Now I do not just speak one sided because a relationship is a meeting and building of two minds together both hopefully going in the right direction.


Dedication towards being more compromising and practicing love and patience is important in relationships...just remember the day you both started dating...you were not distant, you wasn't more in tuned with other things..Your focus was on her and hers was on you. You spent building time with one another by constantly looking at and appreciating the great qualities each had with in and you encouraged those things by speaking forth that praise around each other. And yes that was very uncalled for you encouraging another full grown woman in another state, but I can also understand what made that possible...you also was feeling lack of love and attention. So once again my advice  ..(especially if you both would love to see the sun over the rainbow one day), would be to put on some Brian McKnight and follow his advice...start back @ 1.


Good luck 0  

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