I am 20 years old and never been on date! I mean I dont think I am ugly or picky. I am what people call shy and I am in no way a flirt! I wish I knew how. But ihave bee in 3 if you wanna call them relationships but they where all during my high schol years and where basic over the phone fore the most part. Ifell in love with one of them ANDit did not work out and ever since then I have been scared to let a man get close to me. And by the way I been on my own for 2 years and I have my own Daycare and I have no children do I just wanna know what to do because I wanna get married and I want to stay clean in the eys of god do you think I will ever find someone? what can I do?