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What was your worst dating experience ever!? Posted on 06-16-2009

What's the worst experience you had on a date?
The reason why I ask this is because my last blind dating experience was pretty bad this girl I dated was full of lies!  She said she was 26 but turned out to be like 43 and was dating another guy in my office... Crazy! 
 
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06-19-2009 10:37AM
FitGirl
NEW YORK, NY
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Greetings from the Big Apple!

here's my worst date story:

I was hooked up with a blind date by my friend. Being as I am in elite physical condition, I wanted to make sure that this potential date knew that i was VERY MUCH into physical fitness and health and wellness as a lifestyle. I wanted to date a "like-minded" man (it just makes things easier on the relationship- fo' real!) Well, I talked to this man over a period of 4 months on the telephone before we finally agreed to meet each other in person. Our first date was a "fitness date" (his suggestion. basically, that meant we were going to workout together. I was loving that! )We met at a park in the early morning (by the way,, I had my guard dog Monsta, in the car, with the windows rolled all the way down, just in case this dude turned out to be some serial killer- hey, like the Lotto- you never know) Anyway, I digress... after some pleasantries and lite convo he suggested we run around the track three times as  a warm up and then go to the gym to lift weights. I said no problem, I can handle that. Well, halfway around the track, dude started breathing real heavy. I stopped and told him that he didnt sound too good and that we should stop jogging. He insisted that he jogs every morning and that he was good to go. I, on the other hand did not want to continue because my years of expertise told me that this man was not in any condition to be running round this track. I told him I that this part of the date was over. He insisted on continuing by himself. I sat on the bleacher and watched as he continued to jog around the track. He took three steps and collapsed. 0 I had to perform CPR right there and then. The Police and the EMS came. All the neighbors were out. My dog was acting crazy (he saw me run over to perform CPR and thought I was in trouble). It was just a chaotic scene ya'll. OH! And I found out he was married with three kids. I found this out when he told EMS and the cops to call his wife and tell her what  happened to him. Also, come to find out that homeboy had a whole host of medical issues and was scheduled for some sort of surgery the very next week. His wife was calling me every day cursing ME out and I was the one who saved her lying, low down,  out-of-shape husbands life. He was calling me too and leaving messages thru my friend about how beautiful I was and how he didnt want this "incident' to come between us getting to know each other better. I changed my phone number and kept it moving. Lawdy-lawdy- lawd! 0 It's rough out here for a sista -LOL

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06-19-2009 01:40PM

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"FitGirl" wrote:
And I found out he was married with three kids. I found this out when he told EMS and the cops to call his wife and tell her what  happened to him.

That right there is pretty bad... but come on, give the rest of us brothers a chance!
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06-21-2009 01:27PM

JenFad
Central Jersey, NJ
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I went out with this "nut" who thought he was Hispanic and even had gone to the point of changing his last name to a "more Hispanic sounding last name".  I found out he was crazy when I met his family.  He was a real fruit cake. 

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06-25-2009 01:46PM

Lanae5000
Evergreen Park, IL
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I haven't been on too many dates. I can probably count on one hand. The date I did go on was last summer. The guy cam ro my house to pick me up and he said we were going out to eat to his favorite resaurant. I'm thinking that it's like Chilis or maybe Cheesecake Factory but it was IHOP. I was a little shocked but it was cool then we went to go see Dark Knight. It was a nice date but then maybe 3 weeks later I find out that he trying to get with my pastor's niece



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11-01-2009 09:19AM

paulette
nyc, NY
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My worst date was when I went out with a man whom I thought that I was going to have a relatioship with.  We had been dating for 8 months, and we went to a lot of nices places in the city.

I finally went to his house, and he had his brother and his white girlfriend there.  He had a duplex apartment,  after we had dinner we went upstairs to his bedroom.  I know I should not have gone to bed with him but I did.  After  the love making was over he went back downstairs to get some food. 

When he came back the light was off, he jumped back on me, and started making love to me again.  But this time the feeling was different, all of a sudden the lights downstairs was tuned on, and  I saw my date walking up the stairs.  It was his brother who was on top of me. 

Oh God, I can not tell you guys what I did because it can still be used against me in a court of law, but yes that was my worst date.

 

Can anybody beat that one ????

 

I should have called the police, but I was not thinking correctly at the time.  I will never forget how cruel BLack Men could be to Black women.  I never forgave them. 

 

opps by the way his little brother was a better lover (LOL) 



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04-10-2010 05:33PM

Danyell
Meriden, CT
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"WiLLMoss.com" wrote:
"FitGirl" wrote:
And I found out he was married with three kids. I found this out when he told EMS and the cops to call his wife and tell her what  happened to him.

That right there is pretty bad... but come on, give the rest of us brothers a chance!
Oh gosh I laughed so hard when I read this!! Good for his cheating, lying self!! what a great way to get caught lol, if it were my husband I probably would have tried to kill him while he was still in the hospital bed..


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04-10-2010 05:35PM

Danyell
Meriden, CT
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"WiLLMoss.com" wrote:
"FitGirl" wrote:
And I found out he was married with three kids. I found this out when he told EMS and the cops to call his wife and tell her what  happened to him.

That right there is pretty bad... but come on, give the rest of us brothers a chance!
Oh gosh I laughed so hard when I read this!! Good for his cheating, lying self!! what a great way to get caught lol, if it were my husband I probably would have tried to kill him while he was still in the hospital bed..


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