Awesome Wonder, I am SO there with you on that thought. A wonderful man of God found me so I know they do exist. Many of my family and friends are waiting for their Godly man to find them. My advice is to keep loving Him first and He will take care of you. Stop trying to do God's work for him. He got it!!! When I turned my prayer for a Godly man over to Him, everything fell in place for me. I am so blessed and thank Him for sending this wonderful man into my life. I hope this give you and others some inspiration.
It's really quite simple. Black men are afraid to be men. Black women demand that! White women let them walk all over their feelings, finances and integrity in order to get "sexed". No sex is that good to most black women. I tell them to keep it to themselves because I need more in a relationship than just sex. There's more to me than what's between my legs. I also know how a good man performs in a relationship. I watched my father do it.